LET’S
WELCOME
AUTHOR OF:
Rad-Reader: How did you come
to write this story?
Dayle: Dayle: Early in my
writing career I won several awards for short stories. Unfortunately, there
isn’t a large market for short stories, so as a freelance writer, most of what
I wrote was nonfiction. However, I always wanted to write a novel. Ideas for
novels germinated and then floated around in my brain for years, but what
motivated me to finally sit down and get started on one is a funny story. I am
not only a writer but also an avid reader. Over the years as I read
beautifully crafted novels, I would feel intimidated at the idea of trying to
write one myself, unsure if I could write as well as those authors did. Then a
few years ago when I was recovering from an illness, a friend brought me a
stack of books to read. I started one of them but found it so poorly written
that I only got through three chapters and then couldn’t stand to read anymore. I wondered how that author had managed to get such a poorly written novel
published and was stunned when I looked inside the front cover to find that she
had a long list of books she’d written. At that, I thought, “I can write at
least that well, so if she can be a novelist, so can I.” I don’t remember the
title of the book or the name of the author, but I owe her a debt of gratitude.
Rad-Reader: Where did the idea come from?
Dayle: Interestingly, the first part
of the book I came up with was actually the end where they are in the snow
cave. That idea came years ago when my husband and I were riding snowmobiles
with friends in a remote area. I thought, “What if something happened and we
had to stay out here all night.” I had just finished reading a book where a
couple was forced to take shelter together for the night, and the two just morphed
together into what would one day become an important scene in this book.
The overall idea was one I’ve mulled over for years. Living in
a small, close-knit community, I’ve seen a lot of matchmaking efforts, some
welcome and some not. I thought it would be fun to write a book about a man who
everyone is trying to set up. At first, I thought it would just be a humorous
story, but as I tried to write it that way, it just wasn’t working. The
characters seemed shallow and their actions arbitrary. It wasn’t until I
started asking “Why?” that things began to come together. Why didn’t Jack want
to date? Why did Ally turn him down? Once I understood the motivation behind
the actions, the characters became more real, and that led to the deeper, more
emotional parts of the story.
Rad-Reader: Can you give us
the backstory on Ally and Jack that the blurb/synopsis doesn’t give us?
Dayle: Jack grew up on the family
farm in Corbett, Idaho, and has never lived anywhere else. He married his high
school sweetheart, Katelin, just a couple of years after graduation. He’s a
nice guy but one who doesn’t talk about feelings easily. He’s carrying around
an emotional burden stemming from Katelin’s death, a burden which he hasn’t
examined and which he doesn’t completely understand himself.
Ally got married in college and had a son, Ben. She worked as a
schoolteacher to put her husband, Ewan, through medical school. Then just as
Ewan was about to finish his training, he announced to Ally that he wanted a
divorce. He was at that time involved with another medical student, Lorraine,
who he married after the divorce was final. This experience has left Ally
carrying some emotional baggage as well.
Rad-Reader: What happened to
Jack’s wife?
Dayle: She died from cancer.
Rad-Reader: How long ago did
she pass away? How long were they
married?
Dayle: The book says that Jack has
been out of high school for 13 years, that he and Katelin got married two years
out of high school, and that Katelin died 3 years earlier. That would mean they
were married for about 8 years.
Rad-Reader: Why is it everyone’s
mission to find Jack a wife? And they feel
they have a right to tell him his grieving is over?
Dayle: Corbett is a small,
close-knit town. Most of the people in it have either grown up with Jack or
watched him grow up, so they kind of feel like he “belongs” to them. Since he
is not one to share his feelings, they don’t realize the depth to which he is
still grieving. Instead, they see a thirty-something man who seems lonely since
his wife died, and matchmaking just seems to be an inbred impulse in many
people--if they see two single people of about the same age, the natural
conclusion is they would be perfect for each other.
Rad-Reader: Why is Jack so
spooked about women in general?
Dayle: Jack is not spooked about
women. He’s spooked by his own past experience and believes that no woman would
want him if she knew about it. It is easier for him to stay aloof and keep to
himself than to deal with what he would have to face if he were to get serious
with another woman.
Rad-Reader: What is Gavin’s story? It seems like he may be a little slimy by Ms.
Ruby’s and Gwen’s disapproval of him.
So, what’s his end game?
Dayle: Gavin is one of those
people who have a very high opinion of himself. He’s not a bad person; he just
can’t see anything past his own ego and ambitions.
Rad-Reader: Who is older
Gwen or Jack? By how much?
Dayle: Gwen is two years older than
Jack.
Rad-Reader: How did Gwen and
Greg meet?
Dayle: Greg is also a Corbett
native, he and Gwen started dating in high school.
Rad-Reader: Does Gavin know
about Ben?
Dayle: Yes
Rad-Reader: Is the new Baby
the reason Ally got divorced?
Dayle: No, the book doesn’t say how
long it has been since Ally’s divorce, but it does talk about her “staying” in
California when Ewan and Lorraine moved to Chicago. The idea I had, and which I
hope comes across, is that the divorce is fresh enough to still sting but not
so fresh as to be raw. I’m putting it at just over a year earlier.
Rad-Reader: Why does Ally
say no when Jack ask her out?
Dayle: That is one of the big
questions in the story and is answered toward the end of the book. I’ve had
several readers tell me they were getting impatient with Ally and how she kept
putting Jack off even when it seemed that she liked him. However, once they
understood her motivation, her behavior made sense.
Rad-Reader: What is going on
with Ally and Gavin or is there anything but just gossip?
Dayle: As far as Ally is concerned,
nothing is going on. She’s just new in town, and he’s a new friend who is
helping her to adjust. Gavin, on the other hand, wants to get something going.
Rad-Reader: Jack seems to
create his own drama due to living in the past and beating himself up over
something he still hasn’t revealed. So,
why exactly?
Dayle: Jack may be living in the
past, but he hasn’t examined the past. He tries to bury his feelings instead of
dealing with them. As it says in the book, “Analyzing his feelings was not something Jack enjoyed doing.” However,
since he won’t analyze his feelings and come to understand them, his feelings
rule him.
Rad-Reader: Juaquin is
missing. Has Jack even told any of his family
so they could help him problem solve?
Dayle: This is not addressed in
the story, but Jack naturally would have told Greg and Gwen. They would have
been involved in trying to solve the problem as well, but as Jack says in the
book, “how does one go about looking for a missing person in Mexico?”
Rad-Reader: An accident on
the farm causes a chain reaction and it brings Ally to be by Jack’s side. After the accident how is Jack going to run
the farm alone?
Dayle: The accident takes place in
late fall when much of the farm work is done for the year. Winter work
involves caring for stored crops and dealing with the business end of the
operation. Jack could handle all of this on his own if necessary.
Rad-Reader: The gesture of
love Jack presents to his sister, Gwen, for Elsie is a huge sign of growth for
him. What was it that day that made it okay?
Dayle: After finally facing the
past and letting go of his guilt, Jack is able to open back up to the people in
his life.
Rad-Reader: Once
Ally becomes a side note, Jack becomes involved with Miranda, who would have
been great for him, and then Phoebe. So, what happens to them?
Dayle: Miranda and
Phoebe were both fun characters to write. It’s interesting that you say Miranda
would have been great for Jack because I’ve had a couple of other people make
the same comment. So maybe there is an alternate universe out there somewhere
where that is how the book ends.
I debated what to have happened with both Miranda and Phoebe. At
first, I wasn’t that concerned about Miranda, but the more I wrote about her,
the more I liked her and the more I wanted her to have her “happily ever
after.” I think her ending is a nice one.
I imagine Phoebe as a sweet, rather
naive person, and I didn’t want her to get hurt. I debated having her end up
with Gavin or Bryce. When I finally came up with her outcome in the book, I
thought it was pretty funny. I hope the readers do too.
Rad-Reader: If your book was
made into a movie who would you want to play…
Ally: Katharine McPhee
Jack: Aaron Tveit
Ben: Pinterest Boy
Ruby: Becky Fly
Gwen: Rachel Boston
Greg: Tim Tebow
Jud: Pinterest Boy
Trevor: Pinterest Boy
Sid: Pinterest Boy
Brandon: Pinterest Boy
Dayle: This is a fun question. There
are people I know who some of the characters are partly based on and who I
imagine when I think of the characters, but I hadn’t thought about what actors
would play them. I loved seeing your ideas. Here are some I came up with.
Ally: Gal Gadot
Though I do really like your suggestion of Katharine McPhee
Jack: Robbie Amell
—Jack describes himself as being “average” but since he’s the main
character, he has to be at least somewhat swoon-worthy. Robbie Amell probably
leans way more towards swoon-worthy than average, but still, he’s my choice.
Rad-Reader: What’s funny I originally thought of Robbie
but thought the same thing. So, I have searched
and found this… Closest I could get to average.
Ruby: Linda Lavin
Gwen: Analeigh Tipton
Greg: I never would have thought
of Tim Tebow for Greg, but after seeing him as your suggestion, he’s the only
one I can see in that role.
Rad-Reader: What song or
songs best tell the story or describe your characters or book the best?
“Wanted
– Danny Gokey”
Jack was a man walking through his life but no longer an active
member since his wife had passed away.
There was a secret he was keeping from everyone that was making him feel
unworthy to move on with his life and find happiness with any other woman.
“Shallow
– Danielle Bradbery ft. Parker McCollum”
Meeting Ms. Ruby’s Granddaughter when she came into town piqued his
interest more than he ever wanted to admit to himself. So, when she moved to town, he thought he
would move out of his comfort zone. She
was not ready. Really neither was he.
“Leave
Her Wild – Tyler Rich”
The one thing that caught Jack’s eye and played to his senses. Is the one thing people told her were her weaknesses,
but they were the things he loved. She
called herself impulsive he called her willing to put herself out there at any
cost. She was willing to suffer the consequences
if it meant making things uncomfortable even at her own expense. Jack loved her spirit.
Dayle: I like your suggestion of "Shallow” from Danielle Bradbery and Parker McCollum"
Rad-Reader: What would you
like to write if it wasn't Christian romances?
Dayle: I didn't set out to write a specific genre. I
just wanted to write a story that appealed to me. The story included love and
Christian values because those things are just part of my life and so my
stories. However, publishers and marketing require putting stories into
genres, so it became labeled an inspirational/Christian romance. I've had a
couple of reviewers comment that the book reads more like a women's novel but
with a male lead character, and one reviewer, who described herself as an agnostic,
said the religious elements weren't so predominant as to bother her. The novel
I'm working on now, and the other ones swimming around in my head, are all
similar--a bit hard to cubbyhole into a specific genre, but probably leaning
more towards women's fiction.
Rad-Reader: I noticed that
you have six children did you get any of the antics from their experiences?
Dayle: Not any specific antics that
were included in the novel, but raising six children gave me a good idea of how
children think and act. That helped me write children realistically. It bugs me
when I read things in which child characters act unrealistically or in ways
that really, aren't, age appropriate.
Rad-Reader: How do you find
the time to write with such a large family?
Do you have set writing hours?
Dayle: My children are all grown now,
which should make finding time to write easier, but which really doesn't.
Having lots of kids and now grandkids keep me busy but make life fun. I need
to set writing hours but usually, just try to squeeze it in wherever I can.
Rad-Reader: What is your
next project and when will it be coming out?
Dayle: I have another novel I'm
working on, but don't have a date yet. It's also set in a small Idaho town,
though a different town and different characters.
Rad-Reader: Where can our
readers buy your book? Links
Dayle:
Amazon:
Barnes and
Noble:
Rad-Reader: Where can our
readers find you on the Web? Links
Dayle:
Blog:
Amazon
Author Page:
Facebook
Page:
Goodreads:
Dayle,
With your large family, I just don't know where you find the time. We are so grateful that you were able to take the time to be with us. Your book was the slam dunk of the books this year. So far as hits on our blog, almost 400 and over 300 within the first couple of days of running the review. Not bad for a first book.
Your humor and realism are what captured my attention. Children are quick I adopted three at once. And Boy! Was that interesting as well as a huge learning curve. So, when they were at Gwen's and the snowmobile caper, GOT IT! So, So Fast!
You have the whole dating and the matchmaking capers there too. Ms. Ruby is a hoot. But the gut-wrenching moments of truth for Jack when he finally faces his fears was touching, to say the least.
Thanks for the fun read,
Char
With your large family, I just don't know where you find the time. We are so grateful that you were able to take the time to be with us. Your book was the slam dunk of the books this year. So far as hits on our blog, almost 400 and over 300 within the first couple of days of running the review. Not bad for a first book.
Your humor and realism are what captured my attention. Children are quick I adopted three at once. And Boy! Was that interesting as well as a huge learning curve. So, when they were at Gwen's and the snowmobile caper, GOT IT! So, So Fast!
You have the whole dating and the matchmaking capers there too. Ms. Ruby is a hoot. But the gut-wrenching moments of truth for Jack when he finally faces his fears was touching, to say the least.
Thanks for the fun read,
Char
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